Jun 6, 2026
The Illusion Of Control (The Shift That Changes Everything) Day 3 of 5
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From The Shift That Changes Everything by Ted Pagel Jr. on YouVersion
For a long time, I thought I could control far more than I actually could. Maybe you’ve been there too, believing that if you plan well enough, work hard enough, or pray long enough, everything will fall into place exactly the way you want it to. But life has a way of reminding us that we’re not as in control as we think.
Years ago, psychologist Ellen Langer wrote about “the illusion of control,” the belief that we can influence outcomes even when those outcomes are clearly beyond our reach. There are people who get frustrated, angry, and overwhelmed because life didn’t follow their script. Those who need everything to go perfectly rarely enjoy the peace God offers.
The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty. – Proverbs 21:5 NIV
The truth is, we can plan, prepare, and make wise decisions, and the Bible encourages us to do exactly that. Proverbs tells us that diligence leads to plenty, counsel brings stability, and wisdom helps us understand the right path. But even the best plans can hit dead ends. Even the strongest strategies can unravel. Even the most faithful prayers can seem to go unanswered.
It’s in those moments that God gently but firmly reminds me: You were never meant to carry the weight of controlling every outcome.
Control is exhausting. Surrender is freeing.
Scripture says, “‘For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways,’ declares the Lord” (Isaiah 55:8–9). That isn’t meant to discourage us; it’s meant to comfort us. God sees what I can’t see. He knows what I don’t know. His plan is always bigger, wiser, and more loving than anything I could have orchestrated.
Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. – 2 Corinthians 4:16-18 NIV
The more I release my need for control, the more I experience God’s peace. The less I cling to my own plans, the more I see His plans unfold. Letting go isn’t losing; it’s trusting.
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Andi and Brian Hale have a long history of ministry service, including 20+ years for each of them as AWANA Leaders and Teachers. Andi directed the Zion Evangelical Church Choir for 10 years and is now on the Praise Team for the largest church in Texoma (North Texas and Southern Oklahoma). She has had the opportunity to sing and pray with Avalon and Casting Crowns and landed the lead role in GREASE (50+ version) as Sandy at Wichita Falls Backdoor Theater. Brian has a long history in the media, including Radio, TV, Newspaper, PA Announcer, Social Media and On-Stage in front of thousands. As website designers of more than 25 years, they are always eager to help answer any questions you might have.
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